The title sounds a lot worse than it is but I'm still angry and upset and it's the first time DH has reacted this way. I was starting to get stuff cleared away after we had came home from being out for our tea. I was moving things off the bed when I was telling him that a spray bottle of cleaner had been leaking in our bedroom. I was annoyed (because as always I'm tidying up and hes sitting on his arse) and continued to tell him that I thought it may have been his fault when he got up for work this morning as he was over by our drawers getting ready. He then got up and threw the cleaning spray off the floor while shouting it was always going to be his fault which then hit my feet/legs and splashed all up the drawers. He's now gone down stairs and is ignoring me and our children while sat happily scrolling tik tok and playing his star wars game which he's quite high up on. He won't back down until I apologise. We are supposed to be meeting with his family tomorrow for his siblings birthday which I got Birthday cards and presents for. I can't be bothered anymore.
Should I say sorry? It's going to create an atmosphere for the kids. Tomorrow will be awful otherwise. I shouldn't have blamed him if I'm honest but I'm so frustrated. It's very unlikely to have been my teenager or 8 year old as they've been at school.