After we had children my DH never could get up with them in early mornings/ nighttime if poorly. It always fell to me. I’m the toddler baby day, I would sit blurry eyed at 4-5am as they were early risers. My DH would be in bed as he couldn’t cope with early mornings. I took this as my due as I worked but part time and he wa the bread winner. I was exhausted but love d being with them and took it.
My DH also had a hobby when they were tiny which involved training and weekends spent doing the sport - cycling for anyone that knows what this involves.
I lived my family, accepted my DH really wasn’t a morning person. Got used to early mornings and putting the children to bed mostly as he loved his sport.
This is until recently. He gave up sport for a while as DS got into football but now DS has stopped.
DH has now found the ability to get up early I.e 5:30 am to go running.
i am absolutely bloody fuming. It feels as though that he has been a lazy, cheeky bugger. Am I wrong or should I just think it is okay ? All the years I would have loved a lie in !!