This will be the last comment I respond to on here.
It was gone 2am and I was shattered so I ranted about my partner. Yes I have tried a few times to compromise. But he is neurodivergent and so am I. But we are polar opposites with it ( different types) structure and routine is huge to him, so his trying and compromise is different to most.
I imagine a few people have ranted before and not worded it correctly. Or give much of a back story, or let emotion over take. I didnt think it was needed, I didn't imagine strangers who don't know anything about us would jump to "he's going to be a bad dad, he's selfish" over a silly comment and very limited information about this scenario.
My mind doesn't work that way. But it's taught me to think twice before I rant thats for sure.
However please try not to be so quick to judge with no information except a tired woman ranting about a sleep routine. Things are not always black and white. I openly said he dotes on me everyday. But that wasn't enough. I've said I only want suggestions and no comments on my relationship, that wasn't enough.
There are no pleasing some. We shouldn't have to divulge the most private things about ourselves or our partners to stop receiving hate from such a simple question.
This comment will still not be enough, im sure of that. But I will no longer be responding.
Thank you for the people who actually made suggestions, they were very much appreciated. And they have worked. I've slept since 🤣