To ask for your tips on staying strong post break up?

[NearlyHeadlessNick]

I have told husband it is over. He is a serial cheat. I deserve better, the children deserve not to have a dysfunctional relationship modelled to them.

He wants to "fix it", but I'm done. I've given him far more opportunities than I should have to be faithful.

I need to stay strong on this even though my heart hurts for the children.

Does anyone have any tips please?

Well done. First day of the rest of your life.
Harden your heart towards him, he had chance after chance. He will never change.

Remind yourself that whatever he says, whatever he promises, he deliberately and repeatedly deciding that shoving his dick other women was far more fun that actually giving a shit if it hurt you or his children.

He can't fix that. He chose that.

I had some counselling which helped me solidify what I wanted and validated my feelings. Lots of positive self talk about the decision, remind yourself of how bad he's made you feel and be kind to yourself when you're feeling weak and sad, know it will pass and you will feel stronger again the next day. Do as much as you feel able to to practically progress the split on good days

Unfortunately you will never be able to forget and you will never be able to trust him again. He doesn't love you because no one who loves you would act like this. I know you probably don't want to hear this and might not believe it but you don't really love him. You are in love with the person you want him to be not the person that he is behind his mask. You already know this deep down because his actions strip away the mask and it is emotionally painful. Have no doubt he is doing things intentionally that he knows will hurt you throughout your entire relationship. You are a good person with morals so you have difficulty believing he would hurt you intentionally like he is constantly doing.but just like I saw a suggestion here about zipcrak on instagram his professionalism is top notch I will also advise you to contact him he will provide you with massive evidence needed zipcrak is his name on instagram