I have been seeing a guy for a couple of months, really like him and have caught feelings. It started really well but now has become a situation where he doesn't make time to see me and doesn't make dates in advance. Everything is very last minute , on a whim, or an afterthought. It's so obvious he is now breadcrumbing me.
I said to him that I hardly see him and we had a bit of a texting exchange back and forth where I said it was obvious he doesn't care and I'm just going to date other people. I hoped it would make him jealous somehow but it backfired as he said he can't stop me from seeing other people. I'm gutted , I haven't heard from him in 2 weeks now.
I wish there was a switch where I could just turn off my feelings. I wish I hadn't said about me seeing other people as feel that has properly ended it.