Hello, I hope everyone is well, and thank you for all the advice in advance.I am writing this thread today because I have been in an abusive relationship for 14 years and we have two children together.there was mostly emotional and financial abuse and it's still in a way carries on till today. I'm not going to go into details because there is so much of it. However two years ago I started taking out antidepressants and I have a little bit more clarity, however relationship is finished and I don't even have any toxic attachment anymore which I must admit I had before. I contacted Solace yesterday and awaiting their phone call. However I wanted to check if anyone had any experience with them as I would like to get help with accommodation in order to move out but I do not want to go to refuge as my children are doing very well at school and are happy where we are and I don't want to disturb their lives too much. This abuse affects me the most which resulted in some health problems in 2017 and i developed depression that I still have and I believe I might have some PTSD as well. I don't want to go into many details with solace as it is too painful, but I would definitely like some help in order to move out. Do you think they can help with that? I am scared that because the abuse did not increase in the recent months that they wont take me seriously because of that. Currently situation really depresses me because it's like living with a stranger in the same house I don't feel comfortable I feel like I cannot move on with my life and I still experience some financial abuse from him because he's paying the rent, but I also contribute to the household probably 80% of my salary goes to bills and food. He doesn't help me with children when children are sick. He doesn't take any day off and he doesn't do any picks pick ups or drop-offs to school. He doesn't do any chores in the house and I stopped cooking for him .because of the situation nobody comes to my house to visit me because I feel very uncomfortable having anyone around as the atmosphere in the house is very tense. I would appreciate any help and advice from you and thank you very much indeed once again. have a lovely day.