dh raises his voice when I do or say something he doesn’t like
today he moved me out the way in kitchen without saying anything as it’s a small kitchen and he needed to get by
he didn’t push me just moved me slightly
I said you should say excuse me or can I get past as I’ve been telling him pls when I want something
and he said “are we using manners now”
I said I do say pls to you
he said “not all time “
he then raised his voice and said he’s not doing anything wrong
yesterday I told him I felt like he forced me to share buy a specific robot vacuum as that’s only one he wanted and he raised his voice that I’m accusing him of being abusive with the word “forced “
I said it came out wrong
now I want another type of hoover and he won’t share but it as he said I broke his hoover a few years ago when it fell downstairs
i have autism and sometimes my words come out wrong
I told
him to match my volume in discussions but he raises voice