So I used to be a traveller and travelled 2/3 times a year when I got with my partner he knew this and made empty promises and we never went anywhere for the whole time we have been together (we also had a baby) but no excuse as I e never went away before the baby so I booked a break for us which cost around £800 he was happy etc and we just went away for it last week now we had to travel from gatwick which was 2 hours away and he made a few comments to say next time I should consult him as he would never go from an airport so far, we didn’t sleep the day we got there and we just explored and the next day he was like “I was proud of you, if you wanted to sleep yesterday you would have ruined my holiday” he also commented on the amount I spent. Now valentines is coming and I’ve already told him I want him to take initiative and plan things and be more decisive and stuff but he keeps now asking me what do you want to di for valentines etc like idk how I feel about this. Bearing in mind I tried to end our relationship but he said he was going to step up as I was doing everything from chores to planning to cooking to taking care of the baby the rent the bills and working. And he has started to do chores but these comments threw me off. I also had a covered long sleeved top on with no cleavage or anything on show and we had a delivery I went and got the delivery from the door and he got funny with me saying you could see everything you need to wear a bra, I told him but you can’t even see anything he was like well I want you to wear a bra next time. Idk