My partner is so ignorent its like he doesnt think about anyone but himself.
We do not live together but I'm starting to wonder if we should break up completely.
Its just little things like he'll come over and sit on the sofa sprawling across it taking up the entire thing. If I walk over to the sofa and make it obvious that I want to sit down (without actually saying it) he'll just look at me and carry on watching TV. I have to actually ask him to move but surely I shouldn't have to? especially in my own house? In contrast, the other night I was laying on my sofa with belly ache and he came in, walked over to the sofa and said "budge"
There's other stuff too. We went to chippy last weekend and DH came in with the bag of fish and chips (us two and the kids) and he put the bag on the side and I said to him I needed to sort the car out and would be about 2 minutes. So he fished through the bag, got his own stuff out and when I came back in he was sat there halfway through his dinner! All our stuff was still in the bag in the kitchen! surely its not too much to expect him to have the sense to serve everyones stuff rather than just getting his own out??
Another one was when we were in subway. We were paying seperately (I was buying mine and the kids and he was buying his own because he eats so bloody much his alone comes to over £10). Anyway I was before him in the queue, the woman looked at me and asked me what I wanted so DP butted in with his order so the woman went off to prepare his stuff then moved on to the bloke behind him assuming that I didn't want anything! DP realised what he'd done afterwards and aplogised but surely he should have realised BEFORE he'd done it?
The final example...we were all in the car, long journey to London so we'd set off early and put a load of sandwiches and crisps in the boot so we didn't have to stop at cafes. Anyway half way there we were all hungry so DP stopped at a service station and said "lets get something to eat" so I said "you sort the sandwiches out whilst I take the kids to the toilet" so I left the car, came back 5 minutes later to see him ploughing through his sandwich and crisps with one of my kids still sat in the car hungry. I said "where's ours?" and so he looked embarrassed and said "oh...erm, in the boot still"
So is it just that "men dont think like us" or is he an ignorent twat?