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Is this bread crumbing

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Holiday2024 · 26/01/2024 15:52

so my ex who never posted on social media when was together has recently just started sharing a lot of motivational quotes about loosing someone they loved but that’s life and life is beautiful basically and that things happen for a reason blah blah! I am not on his socials I removed him but he does have some of my friends on there to see. a friend of mine showed me - I’ve asked her not to again but anyways

hes sent me one big paragraph about it didn’t need to be like this, he didn’t intend to come across the way it did when he walked away from me and that he will cherish our happy times because he’s never felt like that before etc etc… not once said he wanted me back/his family back or took any kind of responsibility but in a round about way seemed like he regrets it!

is this what “bread crumbing” is? He is hot and cold! I’m trying to heal and move forwards but this is confusing me ☹️ I have to have limited contact and I only message and message back when it’s about the kids! I feel like I missed an opportunity by not responding to his long message but at the same time I guess it was just a lot of empty words because as I said he didn’t say he misses me and wants me back!

OP posts:
jeaux90 · 26/01/2024 16:01

He wants a reaction, some validation.
Don't give it to him.

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