I am new here and just looking for other peoples opinions. Been with my husband 5 years married for 3. Fell pregnant 3Months after meeting and he cheated on me several times. We decided to make it work and he doesn’t go out or anything now. I keep telling him to meet friends but truth is he doesn’t really have any. He has issues whenever I go out even if just to a mates house or work night out. He drives my car but anyone would think it’s his as I have to work around him. He is always putting me down and never has nothing nice to say. He’s been helping a little more around house since Christmas but I know about it as he will throw it in my face. He’s self employed and I work part time (decent pay) I pay everything in the house but he likes to try and do treat days (throws in my face). He has a son and daughter from previous relationship (same as me) then one together. I pick kids up and drop them off, I cook for them yet I don’t do anything for his kids. His mum is really good and helps with our son whenever I need it and also treats my kids like her own grandkids. My family are there if I need them but I have to ask his mum always offers. He’s constantly calling my family. Even down to my kids (16/12) they wash pots and he picks faults yet his kids do nothing at all when they come to ours (4 days one week, 2 days next). Our child is 4 and still in our bedroom as my sons bedroom is set up for his 2 children like they live with us full time. I feel so unappreciated, I feel he’s jealous of me trying to progress within work. He’s said he’s leaving several times but goes no where I feel like a single mum.
sorry for the rant and I don’t really know what I’m expecting but needed to let it out to people who don’t know me to get opinione