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Any tips on moving on after a breakup?

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Closingthedoors · 22/01/2024 19:56

Feel very very lonely and I’m struggling as I’m still having to see him everyday.It’s not that I miss him I just missing having someone there and to laugh with. Even though the majority of the relationship was toxic.

I have just bought a new car so he can no longer control me anymore over the car. I am due to go into temporary accommodation on Friday.

I have no one now no friends and no family just me and my kids.

I am also feeling guilty because I have left him with all the bills to pay and he can’t afford it on his own.

OP posts:
SKG231 · 22/01/2024 20:04

Time is a healer.

you have openly admitted that you don’t miss him, you just miss someone. This tells you that the wasn’t the right person for you and you’ve done the right thing breaking this off.

before you even think about entering another relationship you need to be perfectly happy alone other wise you will never know if you’re with someone just so you’re not alone.

be kind to yourself and keep reminding yourself that you are having to go through this and learn these lessons to come out the other side a better person.

any relationship break up is tough but you can’t feel guilty because he is now having to pay bills. That’s his issue to solve whether that means down sizing etc.

Drink your water, eat your veggies, get yourself outdoors it does wonders for your mental health and remember that time will heal. Work on making your life with just you and your children a good one.

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