I used to go to a film club and made friends with the members.
I was friends with the group organiser but we lost touch over the pandemic and I have had health issues and a bereavement.
I did avoid him at times as he was always paranoid and would try and make me feel bad. He would try and be suggestive and I shut him down as I am not interested. He did this even recently when he had a girlfriend.
Tonight he messaged me and said:
Him: Are we friends?
Me: Why do you ask?
Him: We dont interact. Your not interested in me as a person. I don't want people on my Facebook or Social media who aren't. I thought id ask you personally as we used to be close.
I sent this message then he deleted me off Facebook and blocked me on Messenger before allowing me to explain.
Me: That's harsh. When you feel bad you don't want to see people and burden people with your problems. When are you next out?
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What is wrong with people. Because you don't message them all the time and like their posts means you are not friends? I rarely do social media. I have told him before I have health issues and went through a bereavement but he isn't bothered. I prefer to catch up in person but he isn't interested in my reasons. Wish I never responded now. A good friend of mine has never liked him and he deleted her.
Looking back he has always had mental issues. He had a drink problem and smashed a light shade and bulb at his Halloween party in anger which I saw. His fiancee at the time was a mug and was clearing up his mess. She dumped him after 2 years of marriage.
I have witnessed him have bust ups with 2 people, one he got angry and shouted and pointed in his face. They had done nothing wrong, he was paranoid.
He has had fallouts with others. He is always nasty to another friend of mine he fancies. where they fall out then make up. I realise why he created his own film social group, who wants to be friends with him.
I left his film group and deleted his number. Why do people have to be so nasty?