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What happens in this situation?

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Especially4U · 19/01/2024 16:21

I don't know whether to post this here or in legal.
Ex is having supervised contact with the potential to move to the community with supervision by a third party family member or friend.
He has suggested one of his mates which I said no to, and then an older sibling who was verbally abusive to me, again I said no.
I agreed to his younger sibling and also two of his other friends who became my friend when I was with him.
We agreed on the younger sibling and they are named in the court order as the supervisor (despite nobody asking them if they're willing)
I have now received an email to say the younger sibling is no longer willing/able to supervise... no reason given.
The same names have been given, again to which I have disagreed to.
I have put forward his two other friends as before and said it;s up to him to check they're available.
What could happen when we return back to court? I feel I have been very amenable and suggested names.. it's not my fault if they're not available.. but I can't agree to someone I can't put a level of trust in to supervise. I won't be forced to.
Can the Judge just decide and force me to hand over DD to a stranger who is supervising for her father whom I already do not trust and who has been found to be very abusive!

OP posts:
Janetsmug · 20/01/2024 02:46

I don't know the answer sorry OP, just bumping this for you in the hope someone who does know will see it.

MariaLuna · 20/01/2024 02:51

He has suggested one of his mates

So he's an idiot. Supervision - whatever that means - does NOT mean any old random can have access to your child.

I'd be contacting Women's Aid to help you to navigate this.

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