Are there any good novels or films out there about emotional abuse in romantic relationships?

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I have googled novels about emotional abuse in romantic relationships, but I wasn't sure what's good.

For films, wondering if anyone knows of any. I have seen 'Sleeping with the Enemy' with Julia Roberts, which depicts a certain kind of control (he gets angry at how she arranges the towels). But there are other kinds of controlling relationships too.

I once saw a drama called 'I am Nicola' on Channel 4, which was good on the manipulation element of a controlling relationship.

Was wondering if there's anything else out there?

Maid on Netflix

.... I ask because reading a novel / watching a film would be helpful for me in my situation. I just haven't found much.

Gaslight
Marnie
Whatever Happened to Baby Jane
Dolores Claiborne
Mommie Dearest
Kramer vs Kramer

Not all romantic relationships, sorry

The Woman who Walked into Doors by Roddy Doyle is a novel about an abusive relationship, includes physical abuse but has all the emotional elements too. I read it a few years ago now but I do remember it was very powerful. He's a great writer.

‘Enough’ with JLo

Oh another novel - Strange Fits of Passion by Anita Shreve. Far as I remember this is about a woman and child getting away from an abusive partner. Very tense read.

Alice, darling, it was bit of a slow film & could've been a more interesting story, but thought it captured her anxiety well.

Klaxon by niamh Bryan is good

Purple Hibiscus is about a child coming to realise her adored father abuses her mother (and the children)

50 Shades of Grey covers all kinds of abuse.

The Tenant of Wildfell Hall by Anne Brontë is about an abusive relationship - mostly emotional. It was written so long ago and is astonishingly clear sighted and ahead of its time, in terms of articulating realities.

The girl on the train

Gone girl ?

It also had a sequel, Paula Spencer, set ten years afterwards.

Marian Keyes "Last chance saloon" features an emotionally abusive relationship (but it's not the main storyline of the book).

First Love by Gwendoline Riley

Yes this:

“The Tenant of Wildfell Hall by Anne Brontë is about an abusive relationship - mostly emotional. It was written so long ago and is astonishingly clear sighted and ahead of its time, in terms of articulating realities.”

It’s an amazing novel. Definitely worth reading. There is also a TV adaptation from the 1990s.

Daniel Deronda comes to mind - not the lovely Daniel himself of course but the chilling man that Gwendolen marries.

Into the Darkest Corner by Elizabeth Haynes. I read it years ago and still think about it sometimes.

If you can stomach the violence try Pat Barker's The Silence of the Girls and Women of Troy. Ostensibly about war crimes but actually revealing about everyday use of power over women by men and the different ways women respond.

This Charming Man by Marian Keyes. Quite chilling in places. It's been a while since I've read it and the parts that stick to my memory are the physical / sexual abuse, but I'm sure it includes emotional abuse too.

In at the deep end is a great book, with a slightly different perspective from within a same sex relationship.

Not without my daughter

Wasn't there a series on BBC or ITV called Angela or something similar?