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Is new partner playing mind games, being unfair or am I too sensitive

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WelshMan58 · 17/01/2024 10:36

Hello,

Following a divorce I've started a new relationship and for the most part all is good. My girlfriend has started talking lots abour her ex lovers though, two were well endowed, another she recalls as her Italian Stalion, she talks about men who she is friends with who fancy her and she regulalrly has texts from them asking her out for a coffee. She never replies saying she is in a relationship just that she is busy. She was also active on dating sites and she still gets notifications of people interested in meeting up.

She is also a huge flirt and she goes on holidays with girlfriends to Portugal and talks about the big groups of men they chat with and she thinks it's great to have fun with them, I've said this could get her in trouble but it's getting to the point where I'm not sure I can trust her.

I've never been in a relationship like this, I love her and would do anything for her but I'm starting to think she is playing mind games with me or just doesn't realise the effect on me of the things she is saying.

I'd love to hear people's thoughts, am I being too sensitive?

OP posts:
BeenThere0 · 04/02/2024 19:53

Sorry OP, I had a friend like this, I've known her for l years, and she never changed. Either she is with a decent guy that she ends up driving mad (and who wouldn't go mad, with her behaving like this?!), or with an abusive guy, who ends up making her double-miserable - and yearning for the decent guy to come back. The cycle kept repeating.

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