Prank calls from random women?

[Jules1234xx]

I posted yesterday about my suspicions about my boyfriend, well he and I haven’t spoken properly since I left his place, I told him I need some space as I don’t trust him and I’m aware he’s lied to me, the thread is here https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/relationships/4985440-should-i-go-through-his-phone-or-just-trust-what-he-says?reply=132237859

anyway tonight at around half 11 I had a no caller id, which is obviously strange at that time. I also had one a week ago and the week before but they were after 12am and I missed them. Tonight I answered the call and there was a woman on the other end and who I assume was her friend , she sounded very immature and was just saying things like she’s knows me and knows who I am and making silly rhymes up about me, now I have no issues with anyone and I am 25 years old and I’ve never experienced anything so weird. I took it as a joke at first until they started getting very personal. They kept ringing me back and eventually she got very angry and started saying I don’t know anything, I must be stupid etc. She seemed very hurt, at first it seemed like a joke I told her I was going to now block all no caller IDs from coming through. It was like she hated me with the way she was saying things. I’ve blocked all no caller IDs now. I’ve got a feeling this has something to do with him? Very few people have my number.

Very likely.

I read this and thought - I bet its narcissistic triangulation at work. Which is when a shitty person is your partner and they play you off against other women. They tell each woman lies about the other and use them to make eachother insecure/jealous/worried he eill leave them for the other. It can make unstable people even more unstable soo that might explain the calls.

Then I just had a quick scan of your first post i your last thread and that would tie in the same. He deliberately mentioned her so he could get you thinking 'who is this girl?' and put the idea in your head that he might be entertaining someone else. But setting you up to call you paranoid or crazy should you actually say something. Even though you would never have thought to if he hadn't made an initial song and dance. It's a set up. Even implying you are jealous ect and would search her up.

Block and don't answer any unknown numbers. Set your social media to private and don't accept unknown requests.

I'd dump the guy top personally. I haven't read your whole other thread as I said but he seems to be setting you up for an abusing tbh. Planning to play you off other women and make you insecure. Implying you are insecure already. Trying to fuck with your head.

Now it seems he's either messing with someone unstable who is now messing with you...or he's fucked her up so bad she has become unstable. Either way, it's not good news.

If this is genuine I would call the police and no I don't buy she is messed up because of a man, she needs to take her own responsiblity on her actions, I dont see mens behaviour being excused away because 'a woman made me to it'

everyone is reposnsob;le for their behaviour it is not an excuse for anyone

It's not an excuse. But it's probably the reason.
Women don't tend to trash call other women for no reason. Fighting over a guy however...keeps judge Judy in a job.

So the only reason women are unhinged is blamed all on a man? do women have brains in their own heads?

It's linked.

You're better off without the boyfriend