I have a friend (was I believed once) who often is nice to me one minute, then icy cold the next.
This is a work colleague as well.
Dropped me like a hot potato, we were once very close, ignored me for months then when we started working together in the same office again suddenly became friendly again. Then suddenly goes ice cold. Almost snubbing me.
The trouble is I know what she's like she has a history of it apparently with work colleagues.
I think she likely wants to know me when it suits. Like always on her terms.
The problem is I keeping falling for this and feel I am making a fool of myself.
Why am I allowing this. What does it say about me when I can't put my own boundaries in place and just distance myself.
I can't work out why I've been so gullible and keep going back for more and get taken in to think she wants to know me.
How should I deal with her. Any advice?