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Feel Trapped.

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GreenEyedLadyx · 15/01/2024 01:09

Hi everyone I'm wondering if anyone has been in this situation and what you do?

I don't want to be in my relationship anymore it is abusive and making me ill I'm depressed and just feel so alone 😞 I contacted my local council and asked them what rights my partner has and they said he has non and he has to leave if i don't want him here. I have expressed my feelings towards my partner and told him I no longer want to be with him. But he doesn't care he just calls me horrible and selfish for not wanting to be with him. He said he's not leaving because all his stuff is here. I said I don't want any of his stuff he can take what he wants. He said he's still not going and continues to act like nothing has happened and everything is ok. I feel so alone and trapped and no idea how to get out of the situation 😔 he says he has no where to go but he could go to his mother's. He just uses that as a excuse. I really don't want to be with him anymore.

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Ialwaystry · 15/01/2024 01:13

You can ask police to be at your house when you remove him and his stuff. Or wait till he leaves, pit his stuff out amd change the locks.

DustyLee123 · 15/01/2024 08:00

Change the locks when he is out, put his stuff outside. If he kicks off you call the police.

SunflowerSeeds123 · 15/01/2024 08:55

Is your housing in your name OP? If soput his stuff on the doorstep when he's out and have a locksmith ready. Call the police for help too.

SunflowerSeeds123 · 15/01/2024 08:56

SunflowerSeeds123 · 15/01/2024 08:55

Is your housing in your name OP? If soput his stuff on the doorstep when he's out and have a locksmith ready. Call the police for help too.

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Bananalanacake · 15/01/2024 09:27

Is his name on the tenancy. Does he pay towards bills. I also suggest getting the police to remove him.

GreenEyedLadyx · 16/01/2024 01:38

Yes the house is in my name, he's down as a lodger.

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