One day STBXH decided he no longer wanted to speak to me. I much later found out (not from him) he cheated, took drugs etc when he was on holiday the year before. Prior to my discovery, he had moved to his hometown and marriage was very much over.
From snooping on his socials he seems to be in a relationship with a woman he values? and not the one he cheated with. I say this because when they first got together he changed his profile picture to theirs. Unfortunately, a few weeks later they broke up and he proceeded to post a ton of quotes indicating he's hurting. This is something he didn't do when our marriage broke down. We were together for 6 years and share a young DC.
They got back together after a 4-month break and he immediately deleted his SM. And 6 months in, he is still standing strong.
I'm very surprised by his behaviour because we never had each other on SM. He was generally a bad husband and father. Now, he chooses to have very minimal contact with DC and only visits about twice a year.
Do people really change in such a short time?