How to go no contact with sibling?

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Sister is awful. She's had 4 big eruptions at me at my parents house in front of my kids last year. Just don't want to keep it with her anymore. She's an embarrassment. Belittles me.

@heartbroken22 Firstly, does she live with your parents? How on board would your parents be in facilitating not seeing her? ie are they happy for you to visit on your own with your children or will they try to do the whole you know what she's like bullshit that allows this sort of behaviour to continue? I am only asking because you have to be strong enough to have this boundary with your parents too, no talking about what she is up to, no secretly inviting her to coincide with when you are going there.

Of course you can go no contact, but that might come with other conditions such as family gatherings etc and whether you would attend things like a family party if she was there. At no stage am I saying don't do this I am just making you think about what lies ahead so you can consider how you want things to be going forward. I am sorry you don't have a good relationship with your sister.