Not sure if I’m being too expectant, but I feel at the end of my tether with BF.
We don’t live together but are together most of the time, including when he has his DC.
Each weekend we have a chat about our weeks ahead - anything we have planned, special occasions coming up, etc. - idea being that we each have a head’s up and can plan our respective time effectively - or so I thought.
On many occasions now it has transpired that BF hasn’t told me about things, despite having known about them well in advance - things such as him finishing work early, having his DC extra days / evenings, having appointments, etc.
I just don’t understand why he does this? I am always supportive and never begrudge him spending time however he wants / needs to.
It’s not that I wish to control him in any way, I would just like to be able to plan my own time properly - not to mention, it feels somehow hurtful that he doesn’t talk to me about what’s going on - hard to explain but it sometimes feels like he’s being secretive or dishonest.
Each incident is a relatively small deal, but the incidents just keep adding up and I don’t understand it.
Today I found out by accident that his ex wife put their former house on the market a few months ago - yet BF hasn’t breathed a word. Why??