I've just split with someone after nearly a year.
Someone who was never really my type, had a lot of baggage (in the middle of a divorce) etc but he came in and swept me of my feet. Made me believe I was enough just being me. Complimented me. I felt like I could be myself. Seemed like a nice normal guy. Didn't want to go out and get drunk every weekend.
I had my reservations given his situation but supported him and he always reassured me, I was his dream woman etc and let me show you. I wasn't a rebound etc.
The day we split he told me he loved me and said see you later. I asked if he saw a future and then He said everything in the background is getting on top of him and it's made him do alot of thinking. That something In him has just changed and he needs to be on his own. How none of this feels good but he's doing what he thinks is right for him.
Said he hopes we can still be friends.
Then was joking around before I left about I might do this with my hair and just laughing like it was all fine. I've sent a few messages since (wish I hadn't) but he's gone ghost.
He's now done things like got his friend I'd never met to block me on social media, reactivated his Facebook that he deactivated off his own back way back.
I just feel so angry and hurt that I've given myself to someone who I clearly didn't know. Who I tried so hard to make me feel good about them self, was good too, put first. How do I get over this please?