Swore at me 6 times in one outburst

[dungaroo]

It's over isn't it..

I think so.

I don't tell someone to fucking fuck off and fucking leave me the fuck alone.

It's the aggression that's really bad. Why was he shouting?

It's a bit strange to count them, but yes if you think it's over you're probably right.

He was annoyed I'd questioned if he really had to work late all next week or if he could come back the usual time on Friday

I just don't feel there's much chance of the relationship recovering from that

Not necessarily. Context is everything.

Used to make me feel like a princess :(

Don't all abusers do this at the start.

Seems a horrendous over reaction to being asked if he has to work late on a particular day.Such aggressive reactions would suggest he's not being truthful and might be covering something.

We don’t. We seem to manage without it.

There are no rules on what is a dealbreaker and what isn’t but most people would find this unacceptable.

I couldn’t be with someone who told me to fuck the fuck off and fucking leave them alone but there are others who would. It depends what treatment you’re willing to accept. My love language is words of affirmation so this sort of thing would be a total deal breaker for me. If it happened once or twice where we both told each other to fuck off in a massive row or something that would be one thing but it sounds like he’s just ranting these words at you which is very different.

If the relationship is making you unhappy and you feel disrespected then you need to end it.