Let me preface by saying I have ASD, im a massive worrier and an over thinker. I know I am. Im trying to deal with it and partly why im spilling this out here rather than anything else...
Had two dates with the most amazing man. Like genuinely. He ticks all of my boxes and more. He's been working away (3 hours away) at the moment but had planned to come back today, go for dinner and a few drinks at my place. Means he'd have had to stay but I made it clear nothing was happening and then I got my period anyway.
Heard from him this morning 6am and he said he'd be back around 2 I said ok. Next thing he's suddenly got a sickness bug and can't travel! Obviously I'm disappointed - and struggling with the change of plan - but sent a supportive reply oh no hope you're ok etc. which he still hasn't read.
It's niggling me though that he didn't say he'd been sick, felt ill etc it was all of a sudden a bug. We had a misunderstanding about a message last night (something I'd had from someone else) but I thought it had been cleared up, especially as after then he told me he thinks I'm beautiful inside and out and really cares for me...
I just worry he's making an excuse not to see me. I don't know if I am overthinking and worrying as usual or if my intuition needs to be trusted here...
As always apologies for the ramblings!