Hi all, I have a quick question. So me and my OH have been together for a long time. I'll make a long story short. My OH mum lived in another country with him when he wanted to live in the UK. So my parents kindly offered him to move in with us. Ok he did and he lived with us for a fair few years. During this time, me and him ended up constantly fighting over anything, hated eachother to the point of nearly breaking up a few times. He moved out a couple years now and I still live with my parents due to my mum having health problems and honestly, I like living here. I have the upstairs as my own little flat basically. Anyway, he moved out and is almost constantly telling me how this isn't normal, us not living together, how this isn't fair on him, how depressed he is because I won't live with him, how childish I am because I still love with them etc etc. I go over his from Thursday evening to Monday morning because it's what he wants, he told me I had to basically. Since he moved out, other than arguing about me not wanting to live with him, we have been better in every possible way. Im happier than I have ever been with him and my life ATM the way it is. I can do what I want, when I want. Yeah I live with my parents at 34 but I'm really happy. That's all that matters right? Another thing I should mention, he makes me pay his water bill each month because apparently he pays every bill for us living there even though I've told him till I'm blue in the face I don't live with him, I pay for all our food for the weekend etc when I'm there and I also do house work like his washing, washing up and cooking.
I just want to know if living apart is completely normal or am I insane/a child for still wanting to live with my parents instead of him?
Thanks all