me and xdh split 3 weeks ago and he moved into his dads.
this weekend he asked could he have both kids to stay on saturday night.
when he dropped them off there was a girl in the car with him, his stepbrothers girlfriend, when i was putting dd to bed she told me that xdh and the girl had told her they were taking her away on holiday and that the girl had gone into daddys room.
ds told me he came downstairs to find them entwined on the sofa, he,d got upset and xdh told him to shut up.
he told me the girl had been winding him up shouting boo in his ear loud (ds is asd)
i saw red and text xdh and asked him what was going on.
he sent me a number of not very nice text,saying ds is a shit stirrer and i can stick him up my arse, that ill never get another man as long as ds is with me.
he doesnt want anything to do with ds any longer, ds is not his biological child.
ds is distraught at what has gone on, but ive talked to him and made it out like its his decision that he no longer sees xdh.
ive told xdh to bring the car back that he,s not swanning around with his new girlfriend.
(he even took her to my mums yesterday looking for me)
and ive asked him not to come to the house any longer, that ill liase with his parents about dd -who he still wants to see.
im absolutely devestated for ds.
ive got to phone his school and let them know whats gone on and im dreading it.
xdh has also accused ds of being a liar and said there is nothing going on tween him and this girl but i believe ds.