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Wife denys things without any need to.

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Olddad72 · 01/01/2024 18:18

We've been married for over 30 years, no real problems just the usual ups and downs that couples go through.
A while back, out of the blue she denied ever going into the attic. I don't blame her it's awkward at best. Like most people there's all sorts stored up there. Including boxes of photos and letters of hers from before we met. Including a number of letters from an old boyfriend, they were very saucy. To be honest I thought lucky fella and left them where they were and didn't comment.
The next time I had to venture into the attic they had disappeared. Not to worry , it doesn't take too much brain power to add 2 and 2 to know what happened.
Fast forward a few weeks and again out of the blue denied something. " I've never had sex with another woman, Sue asked me once at a party but I turned her down" . I was surprised by the revelation, but more intrigued by the denial. I didn't say anything at the time and was brushed off when I brought it up later.
Our sex life hasn't been up to much recently and this latest denial has left me asking myself all sorts of questions, the main one is why mention her friend hit on her all those years ago?

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BCBird · 01/01/2024 18:22

We're u having a conversation about sex at the time? If so no issue . Did she just say it out of the blue? What's on the past is in the past in my opinion. Talk to her

Olddad72 · 01/01/2024 19:04

Just out of the blue, we were driving into the supermarket car park.

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CommonSenze · 01/01/2024 19:58

I’m assuming from your user name and post that you and DW are older. I’d suggest testing for early signs of dementia. I’m also assuming this party was a long time in the past and not part of the conversation.

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