Hi
So I met this guy a couple of months ago and we hit it off straight away. We have lots in common and very similar beliefs ect. We started ‘hanging out’ at the start of December and were seeing each other 2/3 times a week.
He used to live in the USA and came back to the uk about 2 years ago but he often talks about his time there. I got the feeling he missed it. Anyway I spent Friday and Saturday with him and he mentioned nothing about hanging out on New Year’s Eve. The most he said about it was that he was going ghost mode and wanting to relax. Even yesterday when he was texting me he mentioned nothing about doing anything so I made plans with my family.
He texted me last night at 10:45 apologising for not inviting me over and the explained that he was on the fence about everything including staying here but if I wanted to come over I was more than welcome. I didn’t go because by that stage I had a couple of drinks and didn’t want to bail on my family. I woke up this morning and felt guilty that he was by himself and phoned and apologised and told him that maybe I should of asked him but he said he wanted to go ghost so I didn’t want to intrude.
Anyway he then proceeded to talk about what he texted and said he didn’t want it to get into another couple of months and me feeling used so he wanted to to be honest which I thanked him for. He then proceeded to say that he doesn’t want to stay here but doesn’t know where he will go yet but he would still like to hang out. To be honest I’m feeling a bit bummed by it and a little confused. Should I keep trying with him or do you think his minds already set?