Sense check pls re ex

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Ex and I don't get on at the moment. He told me I was gaslighting him yesterday. I don't agree. Anyway he was due to come over to mine today for a SEN session with our child. I have said as I was accused yesterday of gaslighting I think it is best you have a session at yours without us having to be in each others presence to avoid another accusation. Would others have done the same. I don't want to put myself in another position of being accused.

What is best for your DC?

And if you don't need to be part of the SEN session when it's at his, why do you need to be present for him to have a session at yours?

He's your ex. Why does it matter what he says? It could be BS or true, but surely his opinion is irrelevant unless it directly concerns the health or welfare of your child and then its ONLY an opinion. Not a universal truth

He hasn't come to one before. They have always been at mine for months. I privately pay for them. I have offered several times for him to come. I have offered today to be at his without me (at my cost). I just can't be accused of things I haven't done. One missed session will not affect DC.

Why can't you be accused of something you haven't done? What difference does it make what your ex says?

I don't know tbh. I guess because I know it isn't true. It does worry me.

I honestly wouldn't worry what an ex says. My ex-husband and his 2nd wife used to accuse me of all sorts. None of it was true. I just ignored what they said and carried on regardless. They stopped eventually when they realised they weren't upsetting me

Don't give your ex head space, and don't give him any power over you 🥰

@Bestyearever2024 thank you. I know it sounds silly to be worrying about it but it does. It makes me question myself. I just want a peaceful life.

Bless you. I really do understand. Its hard to be accused of something you haven't done