Good afternoon,
No idea where to begin.
During lockdown I found out my partner was paying for OF and premium snapchats/video calls and s-ting with a woman he knows.
Like an idiot forgave him and fell for his excuses.
Roll on 2 years I saw the same womans name pop up on his phone and as wrong as it is I went through his phone.
Now I've found the same woman with loads of nude photos, s-ting and complimenting her. Paid over £40 per video call with another woman, bought 'custom videos' all from September on my birthday to Christmas day!!!!
I brought it up and he is now calling mental health!? Saying he was lonely and needed someone to speak to, and it just happened to turn sexual.
Like wtf he knows I've lost 3 people close to me and maybe do believe he may be struggling but this is no excuse!?
And to actively speak to women where you need to pay for their "services" ?
I have a 13 yo Boy from previous relationship and we've been together 5 years and he's been a better father to my son than his actual dad has.
Do I believe he's done it due to struggling?
I've said for him to sort himself first before we even look at us