Long story, I'll try to summarise. In October, my mother was staying with me. She adores my DD. I hadn't sorted her out with the wifi, which was an error on my part. I thought she was using data, she didn't really say she needed it, just that she was waiting for her doctor to call. She thought she needed wifi for this I think. I was busy with work and life, and it turns out she was upset but didn't tell me, or better still, ask me for the wifi set up.
I walked in on her, on loud speaker, so my 3 year old could hear everything, on the phone to her friend, who was calling me a nasty, nasty girl. That I didn't know how good I had it with her coming to look after my daughter. My mother agreed, and said, well I'm only here for DGD.
I was upset, she said she'd felt very cut off without Internet. I apologised for this but don't understand why she didn't ask me for it. Things are still strained for me, and I just don't really want to see her. But she adores my DD and my DD adores her. She's barely apologised, she just wants to pretend nothing happened. I saw her today for lunch but it didn't feel good for me. I still feel upset.
She's an odd person. Lies about things. Very very tight with money. She's a very loving grandmother and was a good mother growing up, on balance. Acted very badly in the divorce with my dad. Wwyd?