I am a lesbian I love my wife I really do…… but maybe I didn’t think this through? She is understanding, goofy, supportive, and an excellent provider for context she is masculine presenting And I am famine presenting, but the rules in bed couldn’t be any different. We’ve been together for almost 2 years now, and I’ve never. “ reached my destination” Once. Also, she gets mad when I don’t she did when we first started dating so discouraged me to continue to let her try if it was just going to bring an argument and hurt her self esteem. We barely do anything, and if we do, I have to beg her for days. We are both pleasers, but I missing something. There’s no spark there’s no passion. There’s no deep kisses. There’s (it’s gotten so bad that I’ve started to watch a video of my ex fiancé and I. and It hit the nail on the head every time. I never imagined myself doing something like this and I feel like I’m cheating. I have had plenty of discussions with her about how I feel and I have also suggested counseling she doesn’t want to do counseling, and when I tried to give her advice on my body and the things I like she gets frustrated or she just failed miserably and I get turned off. Does anybody have any advice please. I’m literally dying inside. …