Trying to get H to leave. Hes not nice to be around. When hes dranks hes angry but says i make him like this. Im sober, dont drink at home. Ive been trying to end our relationship since the summer but he refuses to accept it. I think if he moves out to give us some space he might be able to start to process it
as it is, he drinks daily. Even yesterday, we argued in the morning because of his drinking. I am not looking forward to Christmas. He left to go to the pub in a strop with a friend. Came home and hid drinks and drank those all night. Sick of this life
he swears he doesn’t drink daily, he does but because he hides his drinks he thinks i dont know. Claims poverty and owes me money yet affords drinks. The kids both want him to leave. I feel like im failing them but i cant see a way forward