My BF and I met some of his friends this weekend. We stayed over and there was a fair amount of booze, which was funny overall until they said a few things about my BF which unsettled me. Apparently a few arrests for "stupid" stuff, and one assault one. His friends thought it was hilarious that I didn't know about it which made me feel like an idiot.
I tried to stay out of it and asked my BF about it later but was reluctant to talk about it (he had seemed fine when they were all laughing about it though!). He did explain some of it, but it was obvious that he didn't want to have this discussion at all. I know that this alone doesn't mean a lot but I never knew and I don't know how to feel about it. I just don't think I know anyone who has been arrested multiple times before! We've been together 2 years and I never even thought about anything like this.