I have recently gone online, just to see what it’s like on there and I’m just a little deflated about the way men are on there. I only message back the ones who seem genuine, have more than one photo, look and sound decent on their profiles, and say they don’t want anything casual. But every single time they seem to go straight in with bringing up sex / wanting to do sexting / making inappropriate comments. I’ve had to say so many times, I’m not after a casual thing and also give the heads up at times saying they are coming on a bit strong but they just keep pushing to make it sexual and then they seem shocked or upset when I stop talking to them. I’ve had to block some. I just genuinely don’t get it. Does this type of behaviour actually work for some men?? The most recent one seemed really nice on his profile, had several pics, said he was looking for something real and not casual and after about 2 messages back and forth he starts saying he is very interested and what he imagines my body to be like etc! So that’s really put me off. What happened to just asking someone how they are, how their day has been, etc before jumping in with before “oh I like you, bet you have a nice rack!”