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Daughters “dad”

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Lioness331 · 16/12/2023 20:09

My 3 yr old dad hasn’t seen her since a year old and has been blaming it on me over the phone saying its my fault as I haven’t brought her to him which he should’ve been coming to me. He was very abusive to me in the past physically.He had also said to me do you live in this area still so I said no I don’t so he said why are you lying so I said I don’t live there , then he had said so if I pull up on my motorbike there you won’t be there no? Which sounds threatening ? Over the phone has been saying to me does you and your partner know we are speaking on the phone so I said no he doesn’t which I deleted our call log because I didn’t want my partner being funny over it is that terrible of me to do? I feel so uncomfortable meeting him now as he was meant to meet soon too see his daughter which my mum and partner didn’t think it was a good idea so my mum said she would come along and the dad had a problem with it . When my mum and partner had disagreed with it I already agreed too it . I really wish I didn’t reply

OP posts:
TickingKey46 · 16/12/2023 20:20

Why aren't you just blocking him and having nothing to do with him. If he's serious about seeing his child he will take you to court.

StrawberryWater · 16/12/2023 20:26

Nope. Block his number. He can go through the courts.

MistletoeandJd · 16/12/2023 21:32

Definitely court meeting him is just silly with the circumstances.

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