Our relationship hasn't been 100% for a while but we have good patches and rougher patches.
Lately I get the feeling he might be at the very least speaking to someone else (which he's been caught out on before a few years ago).
I was going out last night to have my hair done and I went to go and say bye to him. He was on the loo, I'd been waiting but he often sits there ages on his phone so I just popped my head in to say bye, he turned his phone away from me which I thought was strange.
Today we'd said about doing something as a family as he's not working, he mentioned a lights show in the week and I asked him to look in to it see what time we could go etc. This morning our DC's got in bed with us and I asked what the plan was for today, he said he was taking our DS out to the pub to watch the football. No invite or anything. I asked about the lights show he said it wasn't on anymore. Ok.
He go in about 4.45 today and was immediately off with me, he was expecting dinner to be ready - we usually eat at 6. Turns out he hadn't had lunch (had got DS some chips at the pub) and I said obviously I didn't know that and we eat at 6 usually. He blew up saying I'd attacked him and he'd only been in 5 mins. This seems to be a bit of a pattern where I can't do anything right and I get it in the neck a lot, or he makes digs at me.
I don't know if I'm being over sensitive at the moment, my DF has just been diagnosed with terminal cancer so I'm struggling a bit and probably not my usual cheery self. But his pattern of behaviour lately, blaming me for all sorts, being secretive with his phone, going to bed at 8.30/9 without me (not wanting to sit and watch something together as we used to) makes me feel like there's someone else.
Anything I should be looking out for?