Is 4 weeks to soon ?

[hudderford]

Is it's to soon to ask guy if he's actually interested after 4 weeks, I have sensed a shift in him since we slept together, still txting daily but leaving longer between responses and not as chatty even though we do have plans to see each other again

I was thinking of just sending a text along the lines of ... be noticed a shift, that's a shame as I like you a lot and I would just appreciate your honesty

Don't text, have a chat in person next time you see him.

He may just be feeling more settled in the relationship rather than pulling back. Texts can be misinterpreted and he may feel cornered or even rejected (like he is being accused of something) by that message.

He might not feel like he has to put as much effort into this now that sex has happened

Don’t send a text ask him face to face.

Im constantly amazed on here by women who are comfortable being naked with someone but seem to find it impossible to have a conversation to ask a straight question.

I wouldn’t - I’d just play it cool for now. Don’t rush to reply straight away. For some men, once they’ve slept with you the thrill of the chase is over.

If he hasn't met up with you in 4 weeks, he's not interested. Sorry, but that's the way it is.