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Benefits of marriage

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crispynight · 14/12/2023 14:22

Benefits (financial or otherwise) of marriage? What are they?

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Hermittrismegistus · 14/12/2023 14:24

Depends which country you are in. Do you not have access to Google?

Lifeinlists · 14/12/2023 14:27

Commitment

SleepingStandingUp · 14/12/2023 14:35

Lifeinlists · 14/12/2023 14:27

Commitment

What kind tho? My Mom and her partner were together longer than my Dad, who she married. He was also a much better partner to her. H was fully commited. The ex husband, less so

CurlewKate · 14/12/2023 14:40

There are practical benefits-but they can and should largely be covered by a trip to a solicitor. Other than that it's simply personal preference. It's not for me. Other opinions are available.

BetsyBobbins · 14/12/2023 14:43

None for women and all the benefits for men

MillarMountVandal · 14/12/2023 15:45

Marriage is having/giving commitment from/to someone you love.

If you're looking at it, first and foremost, in terms of commercialised arrangement, its almost certainly better not to get married.

ChristmasTreeStar · 14/12/2023 15:56

Not sure and ive been with DH 20+ years, married 10 of those. Just about to apply for divorce. Tbh, looking back there was no benefit but now only hassle for me to basically ask permission from a judge to get divorced. Pointless really. Glad i never spend £££ on a massive wedding

Didsomeonesaydogs · 14/12/2023 16:07

In a divorce after a long marriage (10+ years), all assets are divided with a starting point of 50/50 according to need, regardless of whose name they’re in. Pensions are taken into consideration in order to attempt to achieve equality in retirement.

Cohabiting couples don’t have the same rights.

This is why if you’re an unmarried SAHP, sacrificing your earning potential, career progression and pension contributions, you’re potentially in a very precarious position financially.

Hoosemover · 14/12/2023 16:08

Hermittrismegistus · 14/12/2023 14:24

Depends which country you are in. Do you not have access to Google?

some people are lazy gits 😉

Charlie2121 · 14/12/2023 16:11

The main benefit is that you can pass on unlimited amounts to each other when one of you dies and not have to pay any inheritance tax.

You don’t even need to get married. Just have a civil partnership and the laws treats you the same.

crispynight · 14/12/2023 16:20

@Hoosemover do you not have work to do?

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Hoosemover · 14/12/2023 16:31

crispynight · 14/12/2023 16:20

@Hoosemover do you not have work to do?

if you were so interested why not do your own research the answer instead of asking other to do the work?
it’s a question that would have been answered more throughly by google searches than Mumsnet

youngones1 · 14/12/2023 16:32

DH less likely to run off with a younger model due to the cost!

C1N1C · 14/12/2023 16:34

BetsyBobbins · 14/12/2023 14:43

None for women and all the benefits for men

How? I'd say it's the opposite.

Debate :)

JIMMI85 · 14/12/2023 16:40

C1N1C · 14/12/2023 16:34

How? I'd say it's the opposite.

Debate :)

its genrally seen as the opposite as history says men generally earn more than women but that’s not strictly the case now.

a correct statement would be ‘ no benefit to the one who already owns more assets/cash and lots of financial benefit to the one that doesn’t ‘

for the person that owns a £500k house mortgage free and is marrying someone with no property or savings, they are liable for splitting that asset which they have no doubt worked hard to get 50/50 if the marriage doesn’t work out.

Dontcallmescarface · 14/12/2023 17:03

If you're the higher earner and don't have kids.....absolutely none.

youngones1 · 14/12/2023 17:09

If you are broke and marry someone rich, the best get rich quick of all time!

C1N1C · 14/12/2023 17:11

JIMMI85 · 14/12/2023 16:40

its genrally seen as the opposite as history says men generally earn more than women but that’s not strictly the case now.

a correct statement would be ‘ no benefit to the one who already owns more assets/cash and lots of financial benefit to the one that doesn’t ‘

for the person that owns a £500k house mortgage free and is marrying someone with no property or savings, they are liable for splitting that asset which they have no doubt worked hard to get 50/50 if the marriage doesn’t work out.

I'm glad you used the word 'generally' there, as my counter-argument is awash with generalisations :).

You are right that it typically benefits the lower earner... but isn't that a (mutually?) self-inflicted problem then? Men typically do not like to be 'supported' by women (pride, ego?...), and women typically do not 'want' to support a man ('cock lodger'). So does that not force an earning discrepancy... and as such, a subsequent marriage 'benefit' to the lower earner, who would likely come away with more than they entered with?

crispynight · 14/12/2023 18:12

@Hoosemover your opinion. Bye

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