I had a disagreement with my bf tonight.
It was on the phone, so I hung up after trying to explain that only a joke is when both of us find it funny, not at my expense in front of his friend.
He asked "What have a done wrong now".
For some reason, in conversations with others, he takes over, and I can not get a word in or be heard. I find it embarrassing.
He seemed to have the older man mentality and laughed when I said it's not ok to do this to me.
I made him a cake and delivered it to him, he asked "Did I sit on it" it's a little flat.
Yes, it's funny to him, but not so much me when I was trying to do a nice gesture. Almost always shot down.
He lashed out when I said I had run by a few comments from this past week to friends, to which he said, "What to your (male) colleague who's no therapist?"
He then screamed down the phone at me. Listen to him say he does not talk to me like that, and it's bs what I'm saying.
I hung up.
Heated, and he hates me telling my mother or friends what's going on or said.
He's older... maybe he's senile and I am bloody stupid.