the subject was meant to be I think my friend fancies my fiancee*
I met my friend 2 years ago whilst painting my partner's new gym, she was working on the grounds cleaning. We've both got daughters the same age. I see her every week but for some reason I have always had this off feeling about her. She can be fairly volatile for no reason and will even get funny about me talking to other women at groups.
She's been asking me to ask my partner to fix her mums hob, he's an electrician. My friend has made it clear that she finds him attractive and that she is unhappy in her relationship. She cancelled our plans to meet to be at her mums house when my partner went there. She told me today about how her mum finds him attractive and my friend just kept bringing my partner up. She seemed jealous when I said about the nice things he had done for me. She's asked him privately to come and do some work at her house, he agreed although he told me that day he was not doing private work anymore. She shares his gym page on her social media and she will spot men when we are together and say, “oh, he's so attractive, he looks like your partner”. She also said about how she's going to message him about photos she's edited of him to make him laugh.
I don't really know how to feel about this, it seems to be getting worse. It's really unusual. I have other friends that my partner has met and I've never had anything like this. What would you do?