DH and I have had a lot going on recently
His DM is ill, I've gone back to work after being a SAHM for five years, we have two boisterous small children and DH work is full on and home based which he doesn't particularly enjoy. He misses seeing colleagues etc.
We've had a bad weekend. I've been finding my new job difficult - I went for money over office culture and it's been a big mistake.
I admit I wasn't the best company this weekend and was a bit grumpy with misunderstandings in both sides.
Anyway yesterday it all came to a head. DH completed lost it and we had a big row. DH was shouting at me and basically said our relationship is shit and too much hard work and that he was leaving.
I told him I didn't want him to leave but it's his choice ultimately and me and the children aren't optional so he's either in or out.
He then told our children he was leaving for a few day. They're v small and this has made me furious that he involved them. Bad enough the heard the row.
In the end he didn't go and he apologised for his behaviour but tbh I'm sick of him criticising our marriage and me when the going gets tough.
It's all very frosty here today.
I don't know what to do. Wait until things calm down and talk or in my current mood just call a solicitor.
He keeps going on about his childhood and how hard everything is for him. While I understand he may have some issues I do feel like it's a get out of jail free card.
I also had a less than perfect upbringing but don't use it as an excuse to be an arsehole.
As soon as his mum became ill I knew I'd get the brunt of it eventually.