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Meglionondirlo · 11/12/2023 05:53

Idk what to think about my bestfriend’s behavior towards my boyfriend😭 plss lemme know what y’all think

I start by saying that before my fiancé and I got together we were all friends and were part of a group with other guys.

Before we got together, there was a time when my boyfriend and I didn't even talk to each other because various things had happened between us and during this time he and my best friend bonded a lot.

He has always been a very outgoing guy with everyone so he gives a lot of confidence, but it is her behaviors that seem quite strange to me.
She touches him a lot, she behaves clumsily and silly in front of him, when we are in group she doesn’t go out if at least he is not there because according to her he is the only one she really loves among our friends, when we are all in a group she wants to attract his attention, when she sees that he gives attention to me it almost seems to bother her, when her and I fought once she sends him messages to make me look like a fool. She is jealous of her friends and one night only her,my boyfriend and other friends went out and she didn’t tell me anything, today she replied to the story and wrote him something like "eh.. you and your girlfriend" almost in a jealous tone.

These are only a few of her behaviors,they seem weird to me but maybe I’m just thinking too much
Idk😭😭 what y’all think
Should I be worried or I’m just doing films in my mind

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contactus · 11/12/2023 06:01

please say you’re all very young and none have children? 🤞

Meglionondirlo · 11/12/2023 06:05

hahahaha I’m 17 and he is 18 we don’t have kids

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Eekmystro · 11/12/2023 06:58

Yea it seems like she fancies him, but you know that.

More important is how he responds to her. Why did he agree to going out with everyone but not you?

Bobtheamazinggingerdog · 11/12/2023 07:05

Why are you engaged at age 17? You have your whole life ahead of you. You're all too young to be making decisions like getting married. She obviously fancies him and is trying to get his attention. How does he respond to her?

contactus · 11/12/2023 08:12

Meglionondirlo · 11/12/2023 06:05

hahahaha I’m 17 and he is 18 we don’t have kids

hallelujah!!

Meglionondirlo · 11/12/2023 11:19

Sorry maybe I expressed myself badly. We aren’t engaged we are just in a relationship

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Meglionondirlo · 11/12/2023 11:23

they Didn’t go out without telling me. I couldn’t go out that night and she knew that but she still went out even though she was the only female

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YesThatsATurdOnTheRug · 11/12/2023 11:25

You used the term fiancé once, hence the confusion.

She has feelings for your boyfriend, and she is definitely not your best friend.

Meglionondirlo · 11/12/2023 11:26

as I said he is really friendly with everyone so he give confidence to all his friend, but I know he is in love with me. Maybe I should tell him that it bothers me

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Meglionondirlo · 11/12/2023 11:31

Oh thanksss I meant boyfriend. I really don’t know what to do 😭😭

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