Please can someone help me get a grip

[InTheShedsOfDarkness]

Came out of a 15 year relationship earlier this year. I've recently been very casually seeing a guy, I really like him! We've met up a few times, had sex, great stuff.

He seemed very interested, lots of messages etc, he then sent me some messages last week that were a bit weird, very graphic and specific, I kind of laughed them off, but then the next day he blocked me on everything! I managed to send a text to ask what was going on, he said he was drunk and felt ashamed that he sent the weird messages and that's why he blocked me, he then even blocked me from sending a text!

The messages were a bit strange and not my thing, but I do still really like him- I need someone to talk me down, had a few wines and trying to work out how to contact him! Maybe I should just leave it? Or should I try and let him know it's fine and I still want to see him?

It sounds as though he liked seeing you, enjoyed the casual sex, but is probably seeing other women. Don't keep bothering, he's not interested, and you sound desperate.

I would avoid. I'm presuming the messages weren't something you were into? It sounds like he is into that, so would probably end up trying to push you into that kind of thing eventually. That's the real him, not the nice him he's shown you beforehand.

I’d assume that he’s actually into whatever he sent you, and it’s not your thing, so I’d move on. Even if he strings you along he will be seeking someone who is into what he’s into.

I've recently been very casually seeing a guy, I really like him! We've met up a few times, had sex, great stuff.'

Except that it's not great stuff as you have now learnt that getting intimate with someone you barely know is not a good idea.

So he sent weird stuff and now you need to think about it?