My friend's ex is a pest. He kept messaging me saying he missed my friend. I told him many times to get some hobbies and make new friends and given lots of advice. By doing this I was hoping he would move on and stop contacting her daily.
6 months ago he sent a message saying he liked me then quickly backtracked. I said I am not interested and have a partner.
Last week he asked me out again. I have told him no and that he is disrespectful to me and my partner. He then asked me out again a few days later where I laid into him then. He said is not disrespectful and said he was drunk and gaslighting me saying that I have misunderstood. Then backtracks the next week saying he thought I was interested.
When he was with my friend he said they were engaged but refused to buy a ring. I said you were never engaged without a ring and were not serious about her. He says it doesn't matter there was no ring. I said why my friend put up with no ring and told him he put his drink, drug and nicotene abuse before her speaks volumes. He used to swear at her when drunk.
I have had enough of him. I dont like the guy and tried to signpost him elsewhere. He is a toxic codependent who drinks and admitted he still drinks. He has treated my friend badly and disrepected my relationship too many times. I made my partner aware and he said this guy is making him annoyed sending messages in the early hours and not respecting me as a person. My partner says this guy is a simp and not getting replies on the dating sites so is contacting me.
I don't like fall outs but enough is enough. I don't have time to respond to this scumbag who has no respect and infringes on my time. I certainly don't want this guys attention and am happy with my partner. I thought I was helping giving advice but he has become a nusiance.