I know I need to leave DH

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Been with dh almost 8 years, he's 16 years older than me (met when I was 20) we are married and have 2 sons aged 1 and 6. I've posted previously about how he controls the finances and I have no idea what goes in or comes out.

Now recently he has smacked our eldest. When I confronted him he said he's just messing about. He is a 20 stone man and our son is 6yo. I had a chat with my son today and he said he doesn't like it when daddy hits him but he only does it when I don't listen. It broke My heart. I'm terrified to leave but I know It's what I need to do.

So brave to have done what you have, you should be so proud of yourself ❤️

Thank you all for the lovely messages and support. It's been a while but I thought I'd jump on and give an update. We stayed at the refuge and was very lucky to he rehoused in Febuary. Myself and my two sons now have a safe little house to call home and we are all now thriving. Ds 6yo has settled so well into his new school and has made lots of new friends. It's taken some time but we are rebuilding our lives. Ex DH is asking for contact. I have said this will have to be done in a way that is supervised and safe for all Involved.

If anyone reading this and is in a similar situation to mine I just want to let you know that there is help out there and a way out. I have no regrets I leaving what so ever and couldn't be happier.

Oh, what a lovely update. I think it's great you've come back to post. This may just help one other person in a similar situation. Well done, OP 🥰

Just fabulous

This is great news. Well done for being so strong. Your children will be so proud of you

Posts like yours give me hope, OP. Unfortunately, in my job I see a lot of women prioritising their abusive partner over their own kids. I am so relieved that you are protecting your DCs. You are doing an amazing job as their mum, and should be so proud of yourself. Wishing you the very best for the future!