Online date

[4pence]

If a woman tells you on a second date that she is 'entitled' and lives in a big home (5 rooms in London) 'and all her friends live in big homes' (not self made but inherited from parents deceased)..... would you go out with her ?

Is this question for bisexual and lesbian women?
Because this is a mainly women's website.

Do you mean she said she's an entitled person? Or that she's entitled to something? (Eg: the big house, lots of money ect...).

I dunno, I think I'd be on my guard. Lots of narcissists tell on themselves early on.

I mean she could also just be saying that she recognises she's done well for herself.

But adding in the 'all my friends too'.

Sounds like she's saying 'I have stuff. What do you have?'.

Which is potentially a big snobbish red flag.

No. sounds too braggy and it would be a turnoff. And I've never met anyone who would vocally describe themselves as "entitled" that odd and would raise a flag for me.

This doesn't sound like someone I'd be particularly interested in getting to know.

Mainly, but not exclusively.

5 rooms is hardly the height of privilege, is it.

My small 2-bed flat in South London has 5 rooms.

Just saying.

Anyone who calls themselves entitled would be a red flag to me as in ‘I'm a spoilt princess who expects to be kept in the style I’m accustomed to’

Too much like hard work I’d think

Based on what you've written, she sounds very weird.

I'd assume she meant 'privileged' and didn't understand what 'entitled' actually means - so she'd be too thick to interest me.

No. This is a website by parents, for parents, as per the tagline, and everybody else is welcome too.

Why d'you ask, @4pence What do you hope to gain/learn from the thread?

Maybe she actually doesn't want a third date, or maybe she's actually just being self deprecating and showing some awareness. She can't actually help being in that position. Frankly there's lots of people who have inherited money and bought property, all she is doing is being honest about it.