Am I within my rights to stop contact for ds (5)?
This is just some of what's been going on. I'm aware most of it is aimed towards me however exh is just interested in keeping his control over me and not ds.
• police involvement. No charges made. Emotional abuse and coercive control towards me
• he has not seen ds since the incident where the police were 5 weeks ago.
• he has has only seen ds a handful of times since September. Has no interest in setting up regular contact.
• he has asked to see ds twice since police involvement. Both times I have said he can see ds through a 3rd party (a family member of mine. He can collect and drop off ds with this family member. Ex H said no and refused. Said he doesn't ever want to see this family member of mine again and contact should be done through myself and him. I said no.
• doesn't ever ask how ds is.
• has threatened to take me to court over money I apparently owe him - I don't own him a penny. It's just threats.
• is convinced I have a secret boyfriend. I don't but I'm worried of what he will ask ds if he sees him. 'Has mummy had any men in the house' etc...
• refusing to come and collect his things from my home unless I am present too.
He basically isn't interested in ds. He only wants to see ds to get at me.
Is this enough to stop contact?