I think I know in my heart what I need to do about this. My boyfriend rang me this morning to say that he had had a big night out, friends came after and they stayed up late. One female friend is staying for a few weeks. He was sleeping on the couch and went to his bed to rest where she was asleep. He woke up to her saying ‘what are you doing’ he had reached for her chest in his sleep. He doesn’t understand why he touched her and feels bad. I am mortified. A) his lifestyle didn’t sit well with me and we have broken up over that previously, but now this. Who would forgive their partner for this? There is no excuse, alcohol cannot be an excuse. I feel like all trust is gone. He can’t control himself.